Are you and your lover thinking along the same lines? Here are relationship questions that can help both of you understand each other better.
A relationship is all about compatibility. And whether you tow are on the same level mentally, emotionally and much more
Opposites attract all the time, but too many opposites and none to any similarities won’t really help a relationship work.
When you have small differences, it makes them attractive.
But when you have too many differences in your approach to life or your ethics about relationships, it’s definitely not very well for the romance.
One of you could give and take, but that’s not really an option for the long term, is it? One will later get tiered or want to be treated the same way they are treating.
Relationship questions to test your compatibility
Are you in a relationship with someone for around a year or so?
Then these questions will definitely help both of you test your compatibilities and understand each other better.
And if you’re still in a new relationship
Do you find yourself getting angry with your partner for no reason at all? Perhaps, there are some overlooked issues that you need to face together.
Things need to be explained. If you truly and honestly talk about what you expect and are looking for in a relationship, you could save both of yourselves some time and cut to the chase while knowing what both parties are looking for.
relationship questions to create better love
Sit down with your partner on a lazy Sunday afternoon, ask one another these questions and have an open mind. To make it easier for your partner so they don’t assume any of these are trick questions, you answer first so they know your views too. This is the best way to have a stable foundation for a relationship.
Don’t let any questions annoy you and don’t ever clam up or go on the defensive. Remember, the answers to these questions should be truthful and help both of you understand each other better.
And by the time you’re done with the questions, you’d know more about each other and would also understand each other’s approach to life too.
#1 What is the ideal number of calls a couple should exchange in a day in your opinion?
#2 Would you meet half way on your happiness for the success of the relationship?
#3 What’s your idea of a romantic vacation spot ?
#4 What’s the one most important thing for a relationship to be successful?
#5 What would you define as cheating or being dishonest to one another?
#6 If I cheated on you, would you ever forgive me or would you walk out on me?
#7 Would you ever say sorry to me even if it’s not your fault just to end a fight?
#8 Are you friends with any of your exes or consider being friends with?
#9 How should finances be planned between a couple do you agree on having joint or split ?
#10 Do you think celebrating Valentine’s Day is corny or do you admire the effort?
#11 What was your first impression about me?
#12 Can you avoid flirting if someone attractive flirts with you when I’m not around or would you let it slide if iam not looking?
#13 Do you think romantic gifts have to be memorable or do they have to be useful, would you admire the thought of the effort?
#14 How would you want to spend a special day with each other? Home or plan a trip?
#15 What is the most special memory of us that you hold?
#16 if someone told you something about me that I denied or objected would you believe me ?
#17 Do you have to know all of my friends? Does it bother you if I have the different sex friend?
#18 Do you think past relationship secrets should always be kept hidden? Or disclosed? Or you believe the past is the past ?
#19 Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger or weaker?
#20 Is it okay for a partner to use the toilet with the door open or manner are manners ?
#21 After a break up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back all the gifts? Be honest lol
#22 Which love song best describes our relationship? What song would you dedicate to me.
#23 Describe your perfect man/woman that you would like to date. Am I similar to that person?
#24 In a relationship, what would make you feel happier, sharing or sacrificing? Which would you do?
#25 Would you lie to make me happy?
#26 What are some annoying habits of other couples that irritate you the most? What’s a habit about me you hate?
#27 Who would you prefer as a partner, a good looking person or an extremely smart person?
#28 How do you vent out your frustrations in a relationship? To me? Or someone outsider?
#29 When was the last time I came in your dreams? What was it?
#30 If we went to a store to buy a couch and both of us liked different couches, would you still go with my pick or would you prefer to compromise?
#31 Is sex about constantly pushing the boundaries or playing by the rules?
#32 How often would you want or plan to go out on a date with me every month?
#33 what is your biggest pet peeve?
#34 What do you find sexiest about a person of the opposite sex? Most thing that attracts you?
#35 Would you feel insecure if I spent a lot of time at work rather than with you?
#36 If you were convinced that I was making a bad decision, what would you do about it would you warn me?
#37 Do you like children/how many kids would you like to have someday?
#38 have you thought about having kids together?
#39 If someone attractive exchanges glances with you at work, would you tell me about it or ignore it ?
#40 What’s the craziest thing you’d be willing to do for me? Be honest!
#41 What kind of a parent do you think you’d be?
#42 When do you think a person is ready for marriage and what age?
#43 What’s the one thing about me you’d like to change, or tone down?
#44 In an argument, whose side would you take, me or your friend?
#45 Would you relocate for love or family?
#46 Would you be open to disclosing all your health issues to me all the time on all levels?
#47 If you’re having a bad day, would you want me to leave you alone or spend time with you and cheer you up?
#48 What’s more important, sexual chemistry or spending time together?
These relationship questions may seem tricky or little over the top, little sensitive possibly but it will help you both create a great relationship once they are answered honestly. Always remember you can’t build a kingdom on a cracked foundation. So be honest!